Sunday, March 25, 2012

They're not goggles!!!!!

    For those of you who follow the blog regularly, you'll remember how excited we were that Jack's prescription had gone down. We don't notice anymore, but every now and then, we still get the comment, "Those make his eyes look huge!!" Well, yes. Yes, they do. His prescription is about 10 times stronger than the average person walking around. Anyways, when we got the new lenses, we noticed a difference right away. They were so much thinner! In our eyes, they almost looked like regular glasses, but I guess we need our eyes checked as well, because the comments keep flowing in!

     The most recent barrage we've gotten refers to them as goggles. We were at the pool, and I overheard a young child say to her mom, "Look, that baby has goggles." She and her mom proceeded to go back and forth a few times debating on whether they were goggles or glasses. We were standing about 2 feet away, so when I say overheard, I really mean we could have been part of the conversation. This happens a lot, but parents typically try to change the subject and get their young child off of the topic all together. In these instances, I wish people would JUST ASK. Don't ask if they're real. If you find someone who puts fake glasses on their toddler, please send them my way because I'd like to find an example. Ask how we knew he needed them. Tell him that you like his glasses. Don't whisper right next to us, because last time I checked, glasses were not for people with hearing issues. I CAN STILL HEAR YOU!!

    Ok, so we were at the pool for that one, so I'll give the benefit of the doubt. But 2 days later, we had the same comment about him wearing his swim goggles, and this time, we were at Church! Ok, we've had our days with Jack where he refuses to wear anything but an Elmo shirt, or his Brobee shoes, but trust me, I would draw the line at letting him wear swim goggles to Church.

    So most of this post is ranting about the bad stuff, but there's so many bright spots as well. Jack made a friend at the park the other day. He came right up to Jack and asked, " What's on his face?" My heart sank for a second as I started to go into the whole, "Those are glasses...they help him see" rant, but then I realized this little guy was looking straight past Jack's glasses, and pointing to the giant cut on his head. (He lost a battle with a patio chair.)

    Moral of the story is that while we are very wrapped up and in tune with what people are saying, Jack is so incredibly normal. He has the same bumps and bruises as any other almost 2 year old, and they haven't slowed him down a bit!! (The bruises OR the glasses!)

5 comments:

  1. "Don't whisper right next to us, because last time I checked, glasses were not for people with hearing issues. I CAN STILL HEAR YOU!! ". Hah!

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  2. I am sorry! Really sorry! Can I ask you what brand his glasses are? We have gone through a few pairs with my 3 year old. I am looking for a more sturdy brand.

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  3. AHHH!!! People are so CRAZY! Love the part about glasses are not for hearing issues. IT is the best line. I might to steal that and say it to someone sometime.

    I am going to be sooo sad when Austin knows that people are talking about him and sometimes laughing at him. Right now, he just smiles his sweet little smile because someone is paying attention to him. I am the one that pushes down the urge to punch them. :)

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  4. You are a better woman than I - I probably would have inserted myself into the conversation and had some not nice words to say!

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  5. Some days i think about getting a t-shirt printed with an explanation of our son's eye condition written on it just so I don't have to say the same thing for the gajillionth time. In our experience though everyone who has asked about our son's patch has been curious and compassionate. Only ones that make me cranky are the so called adults that stare..I just stare back till they get embarrassed and look away. Your son is a treasure =)

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